I have no success with women...im always just a friend?

When you feel like you are being rejected all the time and are always in the friend zone, even if you don't say anything to them about how you feel being turned down all the time you still give off a vibe. You are not being needy or anything that would put you in the friend zone which means you are thinking about it and transforming your personality to match and women pick up on if you are trying to just date or if you are being genuine. It does sound like you have a lot going for you but because it's been more than one girl I would wonder if it's not the vibe you are putting out which is a turn off to them. If you are close to any girls then you should ask them what it is that is really coming across as off-putting. As them to be 100% honest and not just tell you what you want to make you happy. I will guarantee that it is the vibe you are putting off that is turning them off romantically. Good luck.